Dress to Impress

July 29th, 2011 by Red No comments »

The name Imelda Marcos stands out as one of elegance and beauty, but also as one of unmatched extravagance, immodesty, and narcissism. People still talk about Imelda’s 2,700 pairs of shoes, her collection of art pieces by artists such as Michelangelo, Botticelli, and Canaletto, her expensive mink coats, gowns, and handbags, and the five-million-dollar shopping sprees she made in New York, Rome, and Copenhagen to amass these. Indeed, no other real-life symbol exists that better fits in with the description “dressed to impress.” In fact, the Wiktionary online dictionary defines the word Imeldific, coined after her name, as “characterized by ostentatious extravagance to a point of vulgarity.”

To this day, Imelda Marcos maintains an air of elegance around her, although much of her wealth, which was allegedly stolen from public funds, has already been seized or frozen pending further investigation and prosecution by the government of the Philippines. She often remarks that she is now poor, but small glimpses of her wealth still seem to exist. She once gave an interview at her residence on one of her recent birthdays where again she commented on her limited wealth. Few noticed, however, that despite what she was saying, a Picasso painting was hanging on her wall in the background behind her. Whenever people give her remarks on her beautiful jewelry, she often tells them that they are cheap copies that she gets for under $2.30 from the hawkers at Divisoria, the famous bargain goods market of downtown Manila. This raises the question that considering Imelda Marcos’s previous shows of wealth during the time that she was First Lady of the Philippines, her subsequent fall from glory, and her self-confessed and self-defended admittance of poverty, from a physical and material standpoint, does anyone need to spend a lot of money on jewelry, accessories, and clothes in order to look good?

I often ask, is there anything wrong with cheap jewelry? They look good and they look very expensive – qualities that you’d expect from pieces made by Cartier or Tiffany & Co. But aside from that, they’re also practical – they don’t break your bank, but allow you to look stunning. Many cheaper pieces of jewelry use Swarovski crystals in place of expensive natural gemstones. Swarovski crystals are glass crystals with distinctive cuts that allow them to closely mimic the qualities of natural gemstones. This makes them highly desirable, and yet relatively affordable. In fact, many Hollywood celebrities have admitted to using jewelry using Swarovski crystals instead of natural gemstones and this has sparked a trend that has made Swarovski crystals not only popular, but also very fashionable.

From this assessment we can see that chic jewelry doesn’t need to be expensive. If you can get a beautiful swan pendant with Swarovski crystals from a Chinese online shop and be complemented about it all the time, then what more good can the same swan pendant do if the crystals were diamonds? It’s true that you can keep the pendant for years as material wealth, but for the simple purpose of adding charm to your looks, the cheaper piece of jewelry will do the same exact thing without costing you a small fortune.

So, don’t worry too much about buying expensive jewelry if all you want it for is looks. If you’re buying expensive jewelry as an investment, then by all means, go ahead! But when practically is more important, there’s nothing wrong with settling for less that does more – and you’ll find that there is a wider selection of rings and earrings, bracelets and bangles, and brooches and pendants that will allow you to dress to impress without breaking your bank!

Car Attraction: Sexy Cars Don’t Just Stop at Looks

July 28th, 2011 by Red No comments »

Yes, it’s true: girls like guys with cars – that is considering that the car isn’t a total wreck and that the guy takes good care of his car, because girls know that if a guy can take good care of a car, he can probably take good care of her, too. But there’s another reality that few guys are aware of: a guy’s car can turn a girl on! Guys, if I got you interested, then read on.

So, what’s the secret behind turning a girl on with a car? To answer that question, it would be best to understand the mysterious being that is “the female” a little better first. No matter how unreal it may seem to most guys, girls are actually very logical, but they apply their logic in different ways from how men do. This is especially true when selecting a partner, because unlike guys, girls have a lot to lose in a sexual relationship. Girls, therefore, are always on the lookout for red flags and green flags in a guy’s behavior or character that influence their long-term behavior toward the guy.

One of the biggest green flags that girls seem to associate with guys is car ownership. This is a green flag because to the girl it means that the guy can support her financially. A good car basically signals to a girl that should the need for material resources arise, then the guy with the car will probably be able to provide for that need. Tricking out a car, ie., adding an in-car DVD system, having a great sound system, or getting a really cool paint job, usually works but is rather superficial. To use a car to really attract a girl’s attention, there yet other things that must be considered that can influence a girl at a deeper level – and this is where understanding that girls are actually extremely logical will help you greatly.

Girls see things in a different way than most men do. Where most men might be wowed by a fully tricked out car, wowing a girl takes a little extra effort. The plain and simple fact is that a girl won’t be attracted to you just because you have a cool looking car. That’s not everything that she’s actually looking for. Girls are much more receptive and are better able to notice seemingly insignificant things – and this is what we have to act on to really grab their attention.

In the context of the car, aside from looks, a girl will notice whether a guy’s car smells good on the inside. A girl will also notice if you take the time to organize whatever it is you’ve got in the car. They will even notice the level of care you give the car and how you maintain it. All of these seemingly little details add up to a girl and influence her behavior because it appeals to the side of her that influences mating responses. Let’s go ahead look at this perspective in more detail.

A good smelling car can attract a girl at a psychological level because females respond very well to smell, in fact, all humans do. Good smells act as a sort of barrier remover. In the context of guy-girl interactions, this is a signal that to the girl that the guy takes good care of himself – making the guy a worthy mate. Thus, just like wearing a good perfume, installing a car air freshener with a great scent will help to lower a girl’s defenses. A sure sign to knowing if a scent works for a girl is if she gets chattier.

Organizing your things inside your car signals to a girl that you are organized with your life as well. Girls’ psychological responses to guys are built around the concept of conflict avoidance. Signalling to a girl that your life is well organized tells a girl that you are capable of organizing yourself so that you have the time to attend to her needs. The best thing is that organizing a car isn’t too difficult. You just have to follow 1 simple rule: there must be a place for everything. If you have a lot of stuff and can’t find space for everything, getting a good car organizer from an online wholesaler might be a good idea. Although, don’t approach this too strictly that you throw a fit if a girl reorganizes your car for you. In fact, a girl reorganizing little parts of your life is sometimes a good signal – it means she wants to get involved with you.

Finally, attend to the overall feel of your car. If your seats aren’t very comfortable, you might  want to get a set of good seat covers with additional padding. Seat covers can also add style points if they themselves are attractive. Putting a masculine looking steering wheel cover might also be a good idea, adding points to your masculinity – if you don’t have the money to change your steering wheel all together. Little details such as these add up and if you are able to make good choices overall, can really light a girl up.

So there you have it. If you really want to attract a girls attention and keep it, don’t stop at just your cars looks. Tap into a girls response systems by making changes to your car that appeal to her at a deeper level. Lastly, be very careful about what you choose to bring into your car, because if you’re trying to attract a specific type of girl, some things might work and some things might not work. Always think about what kind of image you want to convey to the girl you’re trying to attract.